With countless sites to choose from, why do emotionally unavailable people still choose sites where people are emotionally available. Or they choose rooms on those sites that don't fit their preferences. Dugh! How stupid is stupid, you have choices, follow the menu.
I am in the midst of a debate with a man who is disappointed in how older women are acting, non interested in sex, criticizing our physical appearance and unwillingness to go along with whatever he's interested in.
In his mind, like so many other mature men, get a fancy car, dye your hair and pay a younger woman to like you. She in turn is taken care of financially and is supposed to think he is the best thing since the invention of the fishing pole. Not so fast.... At all relationships with drastic age differences are materially based, there can actually be real love, yet those are rare. Celine Dion is a very good example.
Even in those situations, there comes a break when stages of aging can change the dynamics of how love sustains or carries the relationship.
My take is this, if dating a younger person is to make me feel young again, then I am only deceiving myself, I have to be responsible for my attitude. I don't feel like I've lost my youth, I've gained wisdom with edges and curves ( like John Legend sings about) :-D.